Nanny #7. Yes Really.

So. Joanna did not work out. At least, I THINK Joanna did not work out. I am not totally sure, since she sent Piotr an sms at 7:35 yesterday morning saying she would not be here at 8:00 (sick daughter, 39 degree temperature, in hospital, oh by the way, I am in a city 300 kilometers from Warsaw) and won’t pick up her phone or respond to text messages. She assured Piotr in the sms that she’d be back in Warsaw by Sunday – I guess she was implying that she’d be back at work on Monday – but seeing as we cannot get her to talk to us, I am kind of doubting that whole possibility. Oh, and I paid her on Tuesday before she left, since she said she had no money – meaning that she worked for two days and got paid for two days, so she has no reason to come back here, right? She got paid. So. Would y’all say that she has quit? Oh, the fun of the Nanny Hunt!

Anyway. The really sad thing is that she was awesome with Alex. Just so so good. And he loved her. Really. He is not the type of child who takes to people very easily, and she won him over. Sigh.

But! The good thing is that Ola (who I shall call Nanny #6) will be here on Monday, and will stay with Alex for a week. She has actually worked for us before: she was Max’s nanny for a summer, and she took care of him just after his first (and ONLY) nanny left, and before he started play school. She’s an amazingly gentle and sweet and kind young woman, a student, very tall and slim and dark and serious. She took care of Alex already – maybe she filled in for a week or so between Nannies #3 and #4? I am losing track of it all, to be honest – and he really liked her. So I have full confidence that (a) my son will be safe and happy with her, (b) he will like her, and (c) she will show up. At the moment, (c) is turning in to my major criteria for a decent nanny; yes, my standards are seriously slipping.

And so it begins. Again. Perusing the profiles of various nannies, looking at desired salaries, mulling over their experience, calling and setting up interviews, asking questions, trying to get a ’sense’ of what this person is all about, and then hoping they’ll show up on their first day of work. And then once they get here, I have to endure all the stress of working from home, listening through the door, trying to gauge if this person is trustworthy, trying to assess if it’s safe to leave Alex alone with her, and finally, returning to my normal work schedule, which involves having the freedom to set up meetings and leaving my child alone with this person who has a key to my home.

None of this is very fun, y’all. But we are doing it – with the help of Piotr’s father. Yes, Grandpa jumped on a train yesterday and has come to take care of Alex today and tomorrow. God. Maybe I should just hire Grandpa, huh?

(Actually. Technically, Grandpa is Nanny #6, Ola is Nanny #7, and we are on the lookout for Nanny #8. Good grief).

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Nanny #5

So. The big news a couple of weeks ago was: Ewa quit. Yes, Alex’s nanny, the one who bought his great hats and who was funny and sweet and who Alex loved loved LOVED. She quit.

Oh, she had her reasons – good ones, too! – and they involve everything from a better job (actually in her field of study), and money (this new part-time position will pay her not that much less than being a full-time nanny does), location (the job is right near her hometown – which is nowhere near Warsaw – so she can go to school, work AND live at home). In other words, she totally made the right decision and Piotr and I totally supported her and totally told her that it would all be OK and we totally wanted to kill her for plunging us back into the nightmare known as The Nanny Hunt.

For those of you who have never embarked on this particular adventure, let me just start by saying that it is incredibly stressful. You are, essentially, looking for a total stranger to hand over your child to. This stranger will have a key to your home, will be trusted alone with your child, will take them outside for walks unaccompanied and will be expected to protect them as if the child is their own. It’s a lot to ask, and seeing as this decision is made after an ‘interview’, when everyone is on their best behaviour, you see the problem. Mostly it stems from this one question: ‘How do we know that we can give our child to this person?’ And the answer is: ‘You don’t.’ Ha.

So. The up-side (well, kind of) to all of this is that Alex has had four nannies in 15 months. Yes, really. I fired the first two – the first one was totally unreliable and the second one was on all kids of meds that made her depressed and exhausted and she really needed counselling, which she agreed to when I told her my reasons for letting her go – the third one lasted two hours before she came back from a walk and said her mother had had a heart attack and she had to go (I still have no idea if that was the truth). The fourth one was Ewa, and you know that story. So we were hunting for Nanny #5, but as I said at least we had lots of experience, and we had met lots of women looking to be nannies. And truth be told, I would not trust most (like 99.9%) of those women with a pet cat, let alone my baby. Some of them are so scarily unprofessional, and they look like complete alcoholics, or lunatics, or I suspect them of being total liars (like the one with the nicotine-stained hands who swore she did not smoke, as a pack of cigarettes peeked out from her purse), or their hands shake so much I think they’re having DT’s or nicotine withdrawal or they will drop my son. I mean, it is SHOCKING what kind of person is seriously advertising themselves as a nanny. Gah. I think these people think they will come in, turn on the TV, sit around and as long as the kid doesn’t plunge off the balcony or down the stairs or choke to death on a cracker, they are doing their job just fine. It’s horrifying. Truly.

But we met Joanna; in fact, she was the first person we interviewed. In the end, she was the ONLY person we met, since she really ticked all the boxes, and was genuinely warm and kind. And Max loved her, and kept trying to get her attention back on him when she was trying to play with Alex a bit. And Max is quite the little judge of character – sometimes he is uncomfortably so – and we figured, well, if Max had such an immediate and positive response, I guess we can trust our gut. So we did.

Today is her first day. Alex is completely freaked out, because how do you explain to a 17-month-old that his lovely Ewa, the woman he just adores, is gone and will not come back? All he knows is when I opened the door this morning, a stranger was standing there and 30 minutes later, I handed him to her.

They are out for a walk now, and I hope that being outside, at the playground and on the swings, has helped to ease things a bit. And all I can do is hope that tomorrow is a bit better, and Wednesday a bit better than that – and so on and so on.

Keep your fingers crossed…

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Is It Just Me?

So, there’s a bit of an update on the whole pissed off letter to the medical clinic…. and is it just me, or was the medical center’s response just plain old WRONG in terms of customer service?

OK, some explanation: I sent the original letter of complaint on August 4th, and by yesterday – the 18th, two weeks later – I had heard nothing back. So I wrote this:

‘I sent you the below letter on Wednesday August 4th, and as of today – two weeks later – I have had no response. Your lack of professionalism is truly astounding – do you treat your clients like this regularly? If so, it should be no surprise to you that people are unhappy with your customer service (WHAT customer service?).

I will give you until the end of the week to respond; after that, I will feel quite justified to take this matter further.

Thank you,
M’

And guess what? ONE hour later, I had this response (all mistakes are courtesy of Mr. S):

‘Dear Mrs. Michelle,

We would like to inform You, that Your complaint was sent to our Medical Department. All the aspects of Your case are being verified by Medical Director of (Nameless Clinic). At the moment we are waiting for another opinion from prominent specialist in orthopedic sphere working in one of our clinics. We will respond on Your complaint as soon as we receive explanations of this service.

Please be patient.

Best regards,
Mr. S.’

OK, here is what ticked me off – first, WTF do you mean ‘be patient’? You’re lucky I have waited two weeks, believe you me. Also, why no word about what was happening at that end until I had to break out the bitch and unleash the sarcasm, and even do one of my ‘veiled threats’ things? So I replied as such:

‘Dear Mr. S,

Thank you very much for your response.

In such cases – where a letter of complaint has been referred elsewhere in your organisation – perhaps it might be a good idea to let the person who wrote the letter know that. If you did, then we (the letter-writer) would know that (a) the letter has been received, (b) we are not being ignored, and (c) some form of action is being taken at that end. This is preferable to being made to wait for 2 weeks, with no idea of what is happening.

At any rate, I am pleased to hear that my letter has not disappeared in to cyberspace, and I will look forward to your response.

My kindest regards,
M’

And now I wait. Again. Some more.

But this is my question: do you think that when a company or organisation receives a legitimate letter of complaint, an acknowledgement should be sent in response, along with some information about what is being done at that end? Or are you OK with being left in the dark, and just assume that things are being handled at that end, and you wait for a reply more patiently than I seem to be able to?

Maybe I am just an impatient witch. Huh.

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Tribute To Creative Moms (I Am Not One Of Them)

Ooooh. I just read this great article on BBC News online. Admire and ooh and aah at the original use of healthy food, and then visit Smita Srivastava’s blog, called Little Food Junction. Moms with fussy little eaters will find true inspiration!

And here’s a site I found just by chance: Mila’s Daydreams. Mila’s Mom, Adele Erersen, calls this blog her ‘maternity leave project’. Once a week, after Mila falls asleep, Adele sets up a dream ’scene’ and places her sleeping daughter in to it. I love it, since I often wonder what my boys might be dreaming about…

Creative Moms, huh?

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Brothers

I know that as they get older, the 29 month gap between Max and Alex’s ages will become less and less evident – but right now, it’s pretty keenly felt. Mostly by Alex, who seems hell-bent on doing every single thing his big brother does, thus constantly putting his life in some form of peril or another. The swings are the one thing they can do together – though the playground is by no means a totally safe zone for Alex to emulate Max… hello death-defying monkey bars!

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1920’s Newspaper Boy Hat

Every single time I see Alex in this hat, I can totally imagine him shouting, “Newspaper, guv?”. In a Cockney accent. How awesome would that be, huh?

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Part Three – The Disappointment

So. I’m gonna whine a bit. Is that OK with all of you guys?

As parts One and Two of the saga have shown, life was quite busy just before my Mom and brother arrived, but then they left. After six days. And although I have many many many reasons to be disappointed about that (I hadn’t seen my brother in four years; I wanted the boys to go swimming in the sea with their grandmother and build sandcastles with their uncle; I wanted to really talk to my Mom, since long-distance phone calls are just not comparable to face-to-face conversations, etc.), one of the biggest reasons I am so incredibly disappointed is because I needed a damn break from my life.

Yep. The secret is out and there it is y’all: a purely selfish reason. I am worn out. I am drained. I am exhausted. I needed to give my kids to someone else for a few hours and just have some time alone which did not involve work, or worrying if the boys were OK, or making endless ‘to do’ lists in my head. I needed to pretend to not be a married woman, or a mother, or a business-owner, just for a few guilt-free and blissful hours. You know how I know I need a real break? It’s because I am at the point where I relish trips to the grocery store, because I consider that my ‘alone time, and ‘time off’ from the boys. Anybody else feel like this? It can’t just be me, can it?

Anyway, that is what I needed. An f’ing break. And as the insanity of The Client unfolded, and all the chaos of juggling too many clients with too-tight deadlines in too-short-a-time and the boys showed a serious inability to sleep beyond 5:00 in the morning, every single damned morning, wiped me out, I kept thinking, “Soon, I’ll be on a beach and I will be able to relax. Just hold on.”

And I did hold on. For months and months. And then none of what was meant to happen with my vacation happened – in fact, that six days with my family here were MORE stressful and exhausting than anything leading up to their visit – and then they got on a plane and Piotr and I just picked up our lives where they had left off. That’s to say: work and the boys. No break. No time off. No vacation. Although Piotr did go to his parents’ for three days and took Max, so he did get a few days to see friends and drink beer and sleep in, but I stayed in Warsaw alone with Alex, and considering that he seems to have made it his personal life’s mission to climb on every piece of furniture in the flat and use it as a launching pad, I got nothing even remotely resembling a break. And then it was back to work – with all the pressures and demands and stresses. And today? I AM SO WORN DOWN, I JUST WANT TO CRY. I have no idea – none – how I am going to muster up enough energy to get through today’s ‘to do’ list. Really. All I want to do is go to bed, put the covers over my head. I just want to give up. Just for today. One day.

And I have no idea what to do about it. Work is going so well, my client list is expanding again, new projects are gearing up which I need to actively plan and manage, it is 8:29 in the morning and I already have four e-mails that must be dealt with, and so I am not in a position to just drop off the planet for even one day, because if I did, who’d run my rapidly-growing business? Ah, the catch-22 of working for yourself, huh? Like, I want to be successful so I can support myself and pay the mortgage; but the more successful I am, the more balls I have to juggle and keep up in the air. Thank God I hired an assistant a month ago – I shudder to think what kind of basket case I’d be if I didn’t have her helping me out. (My God. Do I sound like Dooce? Do I? Do I?)

So I’m worn out, but the truth is I will find the energy somewhere. I will pour myself another coffee and buckle down and get it done. I will get through today, of course, and I will do a great job: I will be polite and professional and will meet the two deadlines for today and the clients will be delighted and I’ll take pride in my work. I know all this. I do.

But right this second, all I want to do is lie down. And that is the one thing I just cannot do. So. Back to it.

Whine over… and tomorrow, we will resume our usual program. I have an adorable photo of Alex I’ll post. It’s so cute, in fact, that even with how I feel at the moment, it still makes me smile. So YOU KNOW that it is one damn sweet picture, right?

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Just Hangin’ Around

In the midst of all this nonsense with unreliable people and broken elbows which cut long-awaited family vacations short by more than two weeks, my sweet boys have just been themselves. Translation: energetic, healthy, funny, noisy and eating fruit like it is going out of style. Here is Max, doing what he does best – behaving like a monkey on the playground.

Hurrah for summer days!

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Little Update

Hee!

Since posting Part Two of the Saga (oh, it ain’t over yet!), I’ve had three phone calls and three e-mails from Polish friends here in Warsaw, asking me who Nameless Clinic is. Of course I told them – and nobody is rushing to go there and everyone is disgusted and they have talked about how expensive this place is, and what a crock it is. And I know they will pass on my tale of woe (and my Mom’s tale of pain) to friends and family.

Hey, Nameless Clinic? The one who has not yet replied to my e-mail of yesterday? It’s called WORD OF MOUTH!

Better get back to me sooooo-ooooon…

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Part Two – The Pain

Well, I’m back! Are you panting with excitement about what happened next? Are you? Are you?

Actually, I know one person who is: Kwitek (hi, Kwitek!) was over here last night, asking me when Part Two would be posted, ’cause he was DYING to know what happens next. And his friend – who does not speak English, so Kwitek offers summaries of my bloggy life in Polish – is also curious. So. Today is busy, but since I promised Kwitek an update today, I’d better get it out there. I am a woman of my word. OK, but here’s what: I am actually quite busy and I’d like to offer a compromise of sorts…

As my last entry said, my Mom and brother arrived in Warsaw on July 21st; on July 22nd my Mom fell and broke her elbow. Stupid accident and she’s still not sure how on earth it happened – she wasn’t drunk or drugged or anything – but I suspect she just completely missed seeing that curb because she’d had eye surgery about eight weeks before arriving here, and it did not go 100% perfectly. Her vision in one eye was really ‘cloudy’ and if she hadn’t been coming out here, then she’d have had some follow-up surgery to correct it. But she didn’t want to get the second surgery, then fly out here and risk complications, and instead she opted to wait until her return to Canada. And fell over a curb and broke her elbow. Upon reflection, perhaps not the best trade-off in the world, huh?

Anyway. I zipped over to the hotel and after taking one look at her elbow, I took her to a private medical center near her hotel, one which accepts walk-ins. Now, a quick note for y’all: these large private clinics have popped up all over the place in Warsaw, mostly because there is a demand for professional, safe and competent medical care in Poland – and many, many Poles (and most certainly non-Polish-speaking foreigners) feel that the state-run, public system is over-crowded and slow, and that many doctors working in the public system are rude, surly, unprofessional and not truly interested in helping find out what is ailing a patient, so people are quite happy to pay out of pocket, or to buy a medical package for six months or one year.

Can I just quickly say, however, that my personal experience with the Polish public medical system has been overwhelmingly positive: I’d say that my satisfaction rate would be ranked at about 82% (this figure includes doctors that have seen and treated my husband and two sons, as well, and my happiness does NOT include that bitch of a nurse who called me a bad mother for not vaccinating Max three seconds after birth. Ahem). So overall, I am well pleased with the public system, but when dealing with my Mom and a potential broken bone, I thought that an English-speaking option close to the hotel was best. Also, Polish hospitals are not the same as Polish doctors’ clinics: the waiting time for emergencies that are not life-threatening is just unreal, and I had no desire to drag my Mom off to sit in some chair for 10 hours. So, off we went to the private clinic, and it shall remain nameless. At least for now. Depending on their response (or not) to my letter of complaint sent yesterday, I may (or may not) go ahead and name and shame.

Oh, so are you getting the sense that things did not go well? Sherlock Holmes’, the lot of you! And here is the sort-of compromise: I am down to my last 20 minutes here, so how about I just copy and paste my letter of complaint, with names edited for privacy, and you can get a glimpse in to what went down? Yeah? So, here we go:

‘For the attention of:

HEAD OFFICE LTD.
- Management Office, Client Services Department (Division of Examination of Customer Satisfaction) and Ms. Barbara X, Managing Director.

My name is Michelle S, and I am a Canadian living and working in Warsaw, Poland. I am contacting you on behalf of my mother, concerning an issue which has not being dealt with in a satisfactory manner by your staff at the Nameless Clinic on Noname Street; I am so displeased, in fact, that I feel I have no choice but to inform you about the lack of professionalism that my mother and I have encountered at your private medical clinic.

On Thursday, July 22nd my mother and I went to Nameless Clinic, as my mother had fallen that afternoon and was in a great deal of pain – we suspected that she had broken her elbow. This was very worrying, as she and my brother were in Poland for a 3-week vacation, and we had plans to travel to the Baltic coast. They had also purchased plane tickets and made hotel arrangements in Prague, the Czech Republic, for a five-day visit.

My mother was referred to Dr. S (Doctor #0000000), as he is meant to be an orthopaedic specialist, and after looking at her x-rays, he confirmed that the elbow was indeed broken. He said that she would need a cast, and he put it on himself; the cast went from her left shoulder all the way down to her fingertips. He gave us no prescriptions for medication at all, and when I specifically asked him if she would need any form of medication, he said she could take painkillers if she needed them. He also said that if she (a) felt shooting or constant pain in her arm (b) was unable to move her fingers and/or (c) if we saw any bruising or swelling of her fingertips, that we were to return to Nameless Clinic immediately as there may be a serious problem with the break, and possibly complications.

We were due to fly to Gdańsk on Saturday the 24th and we had tickets to return on July 31st; we asked Dr. S if he felt we should cancel our plans. He stated – very strongly – that there was no reason whatsoever to do so, that we should definitely go to the seaside and that she would be fine. Obviously, she would not be able to swim, but she would be fine with spending time with my two small children and sitting on the beach. Based on his advice, we decided to go ahead and on the 24th, we flew to Gdańsk.

That Saturday night, my mother was in pain; her forearm felt like a piece of glass was stuck in it (this is how she described it to me) and the shooting pains had worsened significantly by Sunday. By Sunday afternoon, she was in so much pain that she was taking a strong painkiller every two hours, and was so drugged that she was sleeping constantly. Also, by Sunday afternoon, her fingertips (and especially her thumb) were swollen and yellow and purple. Based on what she felt and what I saw – and taking in to account the fact that my mother is 65 years old – we had no choice but to (a) leave our pre-booked and pre-paid hotel (b) buy new plane tickets back to Warsaw and (c) book her on a plane back to Canada, where she would be able to get attention from her own doctor on what was almost certainly a broken elbow with complications.

We flew back to Warsaw the next afternoon (the 26th) and after dropping my husband, brother and two children at our flat, I had the taxi take us straight back to Nameless Clinic. I explained to the woman on reception what Dr. S had told us (that we had to return immediately if there was any pain, swelling, or bruising, and my mother had all three of these symptoms), and we were told that the orthopaedic doctor on duty that evening (Dr. C – Doctor #111111) was very busy, and they called to ask him if he would see my mother. He refused. I told the woman that was unacceptable, that Dr. S had been very clear and very specific, and we were doing what we had been told by one of the clinic’s own doctors. I pointed out that if a Nameless Clinic doctor told us to do something, then one of his Nameless Clinic colleagues should be obligated to respect this, and to help us. She called Dr. C again and told him about Dr. S’s instructions, and he said we could wait outside the room (on the 10th floor) and he would see us when he had time. We went to Room 12, fully expecting to wait an hour or two, and accepting this situation.

After 15 minutes, the 10th floor receptionist came and said I had to go back to the reception area on the 9th floor. Leaving my mother outside Room 12, I went downstairs and was told that Dr. C would NOT be seeing my mother after all, and she was going to give my mother her money back. Again, I refused to accept this and explained (yet again) that my mother is 65 years old, she was in a great deal of pain, she was showing all the ‘bad’ signs we were warned about by Dr. S and they were going to help us. I was asked to sit down, and the woman said she would contact some of Nameless Clinic’s ‘sister’ clinics and see if she could find a doctor to help my mother. I sat for less than 10 minutes, and then the woman came out of the back room and said that Dr. C had just called my mother into the room. She had no idea what had happened, or why he had changed his mind, but he was talking to my mother at that moment. It was completely disorganised, and there seemed to be no internal communication!

I rushed back upstairs and arrived in Room 12 just as Dr. C was telling my mother to go for another x-ray. When I asked him why he did not agree to see us, he said he did NOT refuse to see my mother at all (so who is not telling me the truth – the receptionist or the doctor?). Anyway, he told us to come back to him right away after the x-ray, as he was very concerned about the pain and bruising and swelling.

After the x-rays, he told us a series of very interesting things. (1) A cast should never have been placed on my mother’s arm as there was no need for it; the best would have been a sling, painkillers and icing the elbow, and (2) That she should have received a prescription for anti-inflammatories, as it is absolutely standard practice for anyone with a broken limb or bone to get them. Swelling of a broken area is inevitable, and an anti-inflammatory is always prescribed. He said that he was very surprised that Dr. S had not done so.

He said the cast had to come off, and he took us to the removal room himself; he also sawed off the cast personally. This is when we got surprise #3 – the cast had been very improperly applied by Dr. S. There was a section of plaster on my mother’s forearm that was raised from the rest of the cast, and this chunk of plaster was pressing down directly on one of the tendons in her forearm. We all saw the part of her arm where this piece of plaster had been pushing down for three days: her arm was actually indented from the pressure. He said that this chunk of improperly wrapped and applied plaster had most certainly caused my mother a great deal of pain. We were very lucky to have come back as quickly as we did, as the potential for serious damage was there. He added that the part of the cast around her thumb was also incorrectly applied, and was far too tight, and that the pain, swelling and bruising in her fingers and thumb were directly because of this.

My mother and brother returned to Canada the next day (the 27th), just 6 days after arriving in Poland for a 3-week holiday. I had not seen my brother in over four years; I had not seen my mother in almost 15 months; we had been planning this trip for over a year, trying to find a time to work with all of our schedules and employers and airline tickets. Since returning to Canada, my mother has seen two doctors – both of whom were shocked and dismayed at Dr. S’s actions. They agree with Dr. C that (a) no cast should have been applied (b) anti-inflammatories should have been prescribed immediately, as a matter of course, and (c) that the ‘raised’ and too tight parts of the improperly applied cast caused my mother great pain, bruising, swelling and could possibly have led to far more serious problems – such as nerve or tendon damage.

I do not mind telling you that my faith in Nameless Clinic is gone, and by association, my faith in HEAD OFFICE LTD. as well. I – like so many people – judge a healthcare practitioner by the people they choose to employ on their behalf, and I feel that Dr. S was unprofessional in every single way.

I must also state very clearly that the cast was the cause of all of my mother’s pain, and this pain was the reason we had to cut short our trip to the seaside. Also, it was because of the huge amount of pain she was in that we thought that the elbow break had complications, and why we felt she had to return to Canada as quickly as possible. I cannot stress this enough: according to three competent doctors, the cast was not only unnecessary, it was completely inadvisable. The fact that Dr. S put on a cast at all is bad enough; what makes me very angry is that he did it so poorly (and just why was it applied so poorly? Isn’t cast-application a basic skill for a so-called ‘orthopaedic specialist’?), that he caused my mother great pain and ruined our holiday.

Private clinics such as Nameless Clinic promote themselves as providing far superior and more professional service than the public Polish medical system; this is why private clinics charge so much, and why people are willing to pay. However, if you expect your clients to pay privately, then we clients are well within our rights to expect a high-quality level of service and care.

In the case of my mother (who had a very simple elbow break, remember, so it was nothing unusual or difficult to deal with), she did not receive high-quality – or even decent quality – service or care. I assume that you are concerned about customer service and quality control, especially since your competitors actually DO provide great service, in my experience. We went to Nameless Clinic because my mother’s hotel was in the center and the clinic was within walking distance; I wish now that I had taken her to Name Of Competitor.

I definitely expect a response from you on this matter, and I am very curious how you will choose to handle it. After all, I work in media, PR and promotion in Warsaw (my clients include Magda Gessler, Polonia Palace, the InterContinental, Batida and the Warsaw Tourist Office), so I know the power of ‘word of mouth’, and I am also aware of the need for a respectful and helpful response from a business or organization upon receiving a legitimate complaint.

I thank you for your interest in this situation, and I look forward to hearing back from you. If you wish to check my mother’s patient information, her name is CS.

Kind regards,

Michelle S’.

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So, there it is. My Mom and brother were here for six days only, since we truly thought that her elbow break was serious enough to cause her that much pain, so it was serious enough to get her back to Canada for medical attention by her own doctor, in English, paid for by her insurance.

We were wrong: that much pain was caused by a well-paid idiot with a medical degree who did not know how to apply a cast.

Stay tuned for Part Three – The Disappointment.

Sigh.

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